So..for shits and giggles I made a pof account…
So far, I haven’t had any outright explicit creeps (surprisingly), but I did have a guy who wanted to know my intentions on sex (because he apparently needs it to see it there’s a “connection”), and I was honest and told him that I had dealt with some sexual persuasion that wasn’t exactly 100% consensual and that I needed to really establish a trust with the person before sexing it up. He hasn’t responded. Lol. Thank you for weeding yourself out of the pool, sir.
Like, seriously…I am not looking to dump my baggage on someone’s back. My baggage is hardly baggage at all anymore. It’s just an old trunk of memories sitting in the attic after I had already sorted through it.
But a guy who knows about drum corps (had auditioned for a local corps but didn’t have money) asked if wanted to go out for coffee. I wouldn’t normally agree to meet someone that quickly, but I’ll probably say yes. (It’ll be fucking weird if we have mutual marching friends.)